When words and actions don’t match up

We all know the saying; actions speak louder than words!

So what do we do when the words we are hearing are not being mirrored in the actions being performed.

Firstly be honest with yourself if you are receiving less than you feel you deserve, in the workplace, in your relationships, in your friendships then be clear about what you want.

Get it clear in your own head first, then be clear with the person involved.

If someone tells you how much they want to spend time with you but won’t make an effort to see you, then I don’t believe they care as much as they say they do.

I believe if a person really wants to spend time with you they will do whatever it takes to show you that! Even finding ten minutes out of their busy day to meet with you quickly.

Words are meaningless without the actions to support them.

Words are beautiful when they are supported by loving actions.

Words are unnecessary when the actions speak volumes.

If you are not getting what you feel you deserve don’t settle for second best, don’t dismiss how wonderful you are and how much you deserve.

I believe that we all know this deep down, but sometimes we need to be reminded every now and again.

So my hope for anyone reading this, is that if you are getting less than you think you deserve that you take a good look at your sitation, realise your worth and start receiving loving positive actions and situations in to your lives.

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About Lou Schwarz

I am a traveller at heart.I dream about travel- of exploring the world and meeting new people. When I am not dreaming or travelling; I work in communications and media and I also teach body balance group fitness classes. I live my life trying to motivate and inspire people through fitness, doing one thing a week that scares me, and unleashing my creativity as frequently as I can. When I am not getting my zen on through teaching I am constantly attract ridiculous things and people into my life and I wouldn't have it any other way. I hope you enjoy my two blogs -or at least one of them :)
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